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By:

Divyaa Advaani 

2 November 2024 at 3:28:38 am

Integrity Has No Audience

The most revealing thing about a founder's personal brand is never what they say in public. It is what they do when they think the stakes are genuinely low. I have observed this pattern across years of working with founders, business owners and senior professionals — people who invest significant time and energy building a public-facing brand that speaks of integrity, fairness and principled leadership. They craft their messaging carefully. They show up consistently. They build a reputation...

Integrity Has No Audience

The most revealing thing about a founder's personal brand is never what they say in public. It is what they do when they think the stakes are genuinely low. I have observed this pattern across years of working with founders, business owners and senior professionals — people who invest significant time and energy building a public-facing brand that speaks of integrity, fairness and principled leadership. They craft their messaging carefully. They show up consistently. They build a reputation that, on the surface, appears completely coherent. And then something small happens a disagreement, a moment of inconvenience. And in that moment unguarded, unscripted their real brand shows up. Not the one built for the stage. The one they have been living privately all along. This is what I call the congruence gap. And it is the single most expensive gap a personal brand can carry. Congruence Gap They speak publicly about values fairness, consistency, respect but apply those values selectively depending on who is watching and what they stand to gain. They are warm and generous with people who can give them something. They are dismissive or evasive with people they have quietly decided do not matter. They position themselves as leaders who welcome honest feedback, but respond to genuine concerns with deflection, indifference or subtle retaliation. And then in the same breath they reach out to sell. To position themselves as the solution for the very person they just dismissed. That sequence tells every story worth knowing about a personal brand. Think about the last time you handled a situation differently because of who was or was not in the room. The last time you were more patient with one person than another facing the same circumstance. The last time a concern was raised and your response depended less on the merit of that concern and more on who raised it. If any of those feel familiar, the congruence gap is already present in your brand and it is already visible to more people than you currently know. The founders who build enduring brands share one quality that has nothing to do with their content strategy or their following. They behave the same way whether the room is full or empty. The same standard applied to everyone regardless of their utility. They address discomfort directly rather than managing it strategically. Their private behaviour and their public brand are completely and consistently indistinguishable. Brand Congruence Brand congruence is not built through posts. It is built through every interaction nobody is grading the email you write when irritated, how you treat someone the moment you have decided they are no longer useful. These moments are witnessed, remembered, and quietly shared in every room you enter next. In a connected world, that gap closes faster than most founders realise. People talk. Patterns are noticed. The founder who projects integrity while practising something else does not lose their reputation dramatically. They lose it slowly, one witnessed inconsistency at a time. Your personal brand is not your best post. It is who you are when the stakes feel low and the easier thing would be to behave differently.
That is the brand people carry with them. The one that either opens doors or quietly closes them. If any part of this felt uncomfortably familiar not because you recognised someone else in it, but because you recognised yourself — that recognition is precisely where this work begins. The gap between the brand you project and the one you actually live is always closeable. But only once it has been honestly and specifically seen. A Founder Brand Audit is a focused consultation call for founders who are ready to do exactly that. Not a free chat. A direct, honest diagnosis built around your specific situation and no one else's. Five slots open each week. Book your call here: https://www.calendly.com/divyaaadvaani/founder-brand-audit (The writer is a personal branding expert. She has clients from 14+ countries. Views personal.)

A beacon of hope for rural athletes

Updated: Oct 22, 2024

How Akash Shinde transformed from a shy village boy to a prominent kabaddi player

beacon of hope

Mumbai: In the heart of Nashik's Adgaon village, a young boy Akash Shinde dared to dream big. Little did he know that his journey from playing in the muddy grounds of his town to becoming a PKL winner would inspire a generation of aspiring athletes.


“Initially, when I used to play, I would come home with bruises because Kabaddi was played in the mud,” Akash recalls as he enters his fourth season with the Puneri Paltan. And despite his family's initial concerns, his passion for kabaddi burned bright, fuelled by the unwavering support of his early mentors Sagar Malwade and Vinod Labde.


His path to success was far from smooth. He faced numerous setbacks, failing to make the cut in his first attempts at various levels. “I fell short in my first attempts at all levels. I went for my senior camp for Maharashtra and fell short there too!”


But instead of letting these failures discourage him, Akash used them as stepping stones. “These setbacks kept me determined, and I knew I needed to try harder and with renewed energy to show the world what I could do and achieve.”


His breakthrough came in 2019 at a seniors’ trial in Nashik. This performance opened doors, leading him to play in the Junior Nationals and eventually catching the eye of Yuva Paltan, which is the Puneri Paltan’s academy.


The turning point in Akash’s career came when he represented his college in Beed, earning his first chance to play for Maharashtra. Under the guidance of Anil Jagdale and Kailas Jagdale, his skills flourished. His journey accelerated as he moved from Mahindra & Mahindra to Yuva Paltan, where mentors like Sangram and Ashok helped refine his game.


Akash’s PKL debut with Puneri Paltan in Season 8 was a moment of immense pride, not just for him but for his entire village. “No player from the Nashik region had made it to PKL or even the Maharashtra team, so it was a shock, a pleasant one, for everyone. The entire Nashik district was very happy. It felt really good,” he reminisces.


But it was in Season 9 that he truly announced his arrival, becoming a formidable force on the mat. In the 22 matches that Akash played on the way to his first PKL final, he scored 139 raid points, averaging 6.32 raid point per match.


His performances caught the eye of the national selectors, earning him a spot on the Indian team for the Asian Games. “I received my Team India kit on the 27th of October. I still remember it,” he says.


The crowning glory came in PKL Season 10 when Akash, along with his Puneri Paltan teammates, lifted the coveted trophy. Albeit playing a diminished role, he managed an impressive 56 raid points in the 13 matches he played. “There was only one target then... we had made up our minds that we had to win the title this season, whatever it took,” he shared, reflecting on the team’s collective determination. Now, Akash stands as a beacon of hope for young athletes from rural India. His message to them is clear: “Keep believing in yourselves and your dedication and efforts.” He emphasizes the importance of loyalty, urging young players to stay true to the clubs that nurture them.


As he prepares for PKL Season 11, his journey from the muddy grounds of Adgaon to the bright lights of Pro Kabaddi serves as a testament to the power of dreams, determination, and unwavering support.

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