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By:

Asha Tripathi

14 April 2025 at 1:35:28 pm

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along...

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along with growth has come another silent challenge — the tendency to constantly observe, compare, and sometimes even compete with the journeys of others. But a crucial question arises: Is it necessary to track the growth of others in order to grow ourselves? From my personal experience of more than two decades as an entrepreneur, I have realised something very powerful — true growth begins the moment we stop looking sideways and start looking within. A Small Beginning I had a flourishing career of teaching abroad, but when I restarted my career after moving back to India, my beginning was extremely small. My very first assignment was a simple home tuition for a single student, and the amount I earned was meagre. There was nothing glamorous about it. No recognition, no large batches, no big earnings. Just one student and one opportunity. But instead of worrying about how others were doing, how many students they had, or how much they were earning, I made a conscious decision—my only focus would be on improving myself. I focused on teaching better, preparing better, and becoming more disciplined and consistent. And slowly, without even realising it, things began to grow. One student became two, two became a small group, and gradually, over the years, the work expanded beyond what I had initially imagined. Looking back today, I can confidently say that the growth did not happen because I competed with others. It happened because I competed with myself yesterday. Comparison Creates Noise When we keep watching others' journeys too closely, we unknowingly divert our own energy. Comparison creates unnecessary noise in our minds. It brings doubts, insecurities, and sometimes even negativity. Instead of walking our own path with clarity, we start questioning our speed, our direction, and our worth. True success grows through focus, not comparison. Every woman has her own story, her own pace, and her own struggles that others may never see. The path of one person can never be identical to another's. So comparing journeys is like comparing two different rivers flowing towards the same ocean — each with its own route, its own curves, and its own rhythm. As women, we already carry many responsibilities. We balance emotions, relationships, work, and society's expectations. In such a life, the last thing we need is the burden of comparison with one another. Instead, what we truly need is support for each other. When women encourage women, something extraordinary happens. Confidence grows. Opportunities multiply. Strength becomes collective rather than individual. There is enough space in the world for every woman to create her own identity. Each of us can build our own niche without stepping on someone else's path. Choose Encouragement Envy weakens us, but encouragement empowers us. Rather than questioning how someone else is progressing, we can ask a more meaningful question: "How can I grow a little better than I was yesterday?" Lift As You Rise Today, after twenty years of experience, the most valuable lesson I have learned is simple yet profound — focus on your own work with honesty and dedication, and success will quietly follow you. We, women, are capable, resilient, and creative. We do not need to pull each other down or compete in unhealthy ways. Instead, we can lift each other up while building our own dreams. Because when one woman rises, she does not rise alone. She inspires many others to believe that they can rise, too. And perhaps that is the most beautiful form of success. (The writer is a tutor based in Thane. Views personal.)

‘When I won, my mother was working as a labourer’

Ganga Kadam, player of India’s Blind Women’s World Cup team, proves courage overcomes physical barriers


Mumbai: Six months ago, Ganga Kadam had almost given up her dreams of playing for India in the Blind Women’s World Cup. Traumatised by her father’s death in May, Ganga decided to quit cricket and help her mother earn a living for the family.


Thanks to her coach, who persuaded her to continue playing cricket, Ganga abandoned her plans and resolved to fulfil her father’s wish of seeing his daughter playing in Indian colours for the World Cup. She was the only player from Maharashtra selected for the final 17-member Indian World Cup squad.


Today, 26-year-old Ganga is basking in the glory of being a part of the Indian team that created history by winning the first-ever Blind Women’s T20 World Cup. As vice-captain, she played a crucial role in team India’s success with some stand-out all-round performances.


India demonstrated their dominance by winning all the matches before going on to win the title. India won their opening game against Sri Lanka, followed by a 57-run win over Australia. The Women in Blue later defeated arch-rivals Pakistan, chasing down the 136-run target in 10.2 overs. They continued the winning spree by thrashing Australia by nine wickets in the semi-final. In the final held at Colombo’s P Sara Oval on November 23, Indian team defeated Nepal by seven wickets.


Ganga was the cornerstone of several memorable wins in the World Cup. In the opening match against Sri Lanka, she was named Player of the Match for a standout performance that included five run-outs and one wicket. In the semi-final against Australia, she scored a crucial 41 runs, contributing significantly to India’s nine-wicket win. “The World Cup win has given me a new identity and a sense of responsibility,” she told ‘The Perfect Voice’.


Humble Beginnings

Born in a humble farmer’s family in Solapur and visually impaired since childhood, it has been a long journey for Ganga. The physical barriers failed to limit her ambitions. After completing her primary education in Futana village in Kalamnuri taluka of Hingoli district, she went to Solapur for further studies and it was there that her cricketing journey began. Ganga was inspired to play cricket after watching other children at her school, the Bairu Ratan Damani School for the Blind, playing the sport. Under the guidance of coach Raju Shelke, she honed her cricket skills and emerged as a shining name in disabled cricket.


The World Cup win has suddenly catapulted Ganga to a never-seen-before stardom. Following the triumph, she, along with the Indian team, was felicitated by Prime Minister Narendra Modi and President Droupadi Murmu. Ganga was also honoured by Maharashtra Chief Minister Devendra Fadnavis. However, her most memorable moment came in a meeting with cricket legend Sachin Tendulkar, who lauded her major contribution to the World Cup semi-final win over Australia, leaving her ‘stunned.’


However, despite all the accolades, it is the concern for livelihood that has left Ganga worried over the future. After father’s demise, the burden of the family has fallen on her shoulders and, in the absence of a good job, it has been a difficult task for her.


Ganga said, “When I won the player of the match award in the first match against Sri Lanka in the World Cup, I was overjoyed and called up my mother to ask whether she watched me playing. But to my great disappointment I found out that she could not as she was away working as a labourer in other’s farms. I want to change this situation by providing my family a decent living.”


According to Ganga, players from other states in the Indian team have received financial rewards and job assurances from their respective state governments; however, no such acknowledgement has yet been received from the Maharashtra government. “During a meeting with him, CM Devendra Fadnavis has assured me to provide financial assistance and suitable job opportunities,” she said.

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