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Rahul Kulkarni

30 March 2025 at 3:32:54 pm

The Boundary Collapse

When kindness becomes micromanagement It started with a simple leave request.   “Hey, can I take Friday off? Need a personal day,” Meera messaged Rohit. Rohit replied instantly:   “Of course. All good. Just stay reachable if anything urgent comes up.”   He meant it as reassurance. But the team didn’t hear reassurance. They heard a rule.   By noon, two things had shifted inside The Workshop:   Meera felt guilty for even asking. Everyone else quietly updated their mental handbook: Leave is...

The Boundary Collapse

When kindness becomes micromanagement It started with a simple leave request.   “Hey, can I take Friday off? Need a personal day,” Meera messaged Rohit. Rohit replied instantly:   “Of course. All good. Just stay reachable if anything urgent comes up.”   He meant it as reassurance. But the team didn’t hear reassurance. They heard a rule.   By noon, two things had shifted inside The Workshop:   Meera felt guilty for even asking. Everyone else quietly updated their mental handbook: Leave is allowed… but not really. This is boundary collapse… when a leader’s good intentions unintentionally blur the limits that protect autonomy and rest. When care quietly turns into control Founders rarely intend to micromanage.   What looks like control from the outside often starts as care from the inside. “Let me help before something breaks.” “Let me stay involved so we don’t lose time.” “Loop me in… I don’t want you stressed.” Supportive tone.   Good intentions.   But one invisible truth defines workplace psychology: When power says “optional,” it never feels optional.
So when a client requested a revision, Rohit gently pinged:   “If you’re free, could you take a look?” Of course she logged in.   Of course she handled it.   And by Monday, the cultural shift was complete: Leave = location change, not a boundary.   A founder’s instinct had quietly become a system. Pattern 1: The Generous Micromanager Modern micromanagement rarely looks aggressive. It looks thoughtful :   “Let me refine this so you’re not stuck.” “I’ll review it quickly.”   “Share drafts so we stay aligned.”   Leaders believe they’re being helpful. Teams hear:   “You don’t fully trust me.” “I should check with you before finishing anything.”   “My decisions aren’t final.” Gentle micromanagement shrinks ownership faster than harsh micromanagement ever did because people can’t challenge kindness. Pattern 2: Cultural conditioning around availability In many Indian workplaces, “time off” has an unspoken footnote: Be reachable. Just in case. No one says it directly.   No one pushes back openly.   The expectation survives through habit: Leave… but monitor messages. Rest… but don’t disconnect. Recover… but stay alert. Contrast this with a global team we worked with: A designer wrote,   “I’ll be off Friday, but available if needed.” Her manager replied:   “If you’re working on your off-day, we mismanaged the workload… not the boundary.”   One conversation.   Two cultural philosophies.   Two completely different emotional outcomes.   Pattern 3: The override reflex Every founder has a version of this reflex.   Whenever Rohit sensed risk, real or imagined, he stepped in: Rewriting copy.   Adjusting a design.   Rescoping a task.   Reframing an email. Always fast.   Always polite.   Always “just helping.” But each override delivered one message:   “Your autonomy is conditional.” You own decisions…   until the founder feels uneasy.   You take initiative…   until instinct replaces delegation.   No confrontation.   No drama.   Just quiet erosion of confidence.   The family-business amplification Boundary collapse becomes extreme in family-managed companies.   We worked with one firm where four family members… founder, spouse, father, cousin… all had informal authority. Everyone cared.   Everyone meant well.   But for employees, decision-making became a maze: Strategy approved by the founder.   Aesthetics by the spouse.   Finance by the father. Tone by the cousin.   They didn’t need leadership.   They needed clarity.   Good intentions without boundaries create internal anarchy. The global contrast A European product team offered a striking counterexample.   There, the founder rarely intervened mid-stream… not because of distance, but because of design:   “If you own the decision, you own the consequences.” Decision rights were clear.   Escalation paths were explicit.   Authority didn’t shift with mood or urgency. No late-night edits.   No surprise rewrites.   No “quick checks.”   No emotional overrides. As one designer put it:   “If my boss wants to intervene, he has to call a decision review. That friction protects my autonomy.” The result:   Faster execution, higher ownership and zero emotional whiplash. Boundaries weren’t personal.   They were structural .   That difference changes everything. Why boundary collapse is so costly Its damage is not dramatic.   It’s cumulative.   People stop resting → you get presence, not energy.   People stop taking initiative → decisions freeze.   People stop trusting empowerment → autonomy becomes theatre.   People start anticipating the boss → performance becomes emotional labour.   People burn out silently → not from work, but from vigilance.   Boundary collapse doesn’t create chaos.   It creates hyper-alertness, the heaviest tax on any team. The real paradox Leaders think they’re being supportive. Teams experience supervision.   Leaders assume boundaries are obvious. Teams see boundaries as fluid. Leaders think autonomy is granted. Teams act as though autonomy can be revoked at any moment. This is the Boundary Collapse → a misunderstanding born not from intent, but from the invisible weight of power. Micromanagement today rarely looks like anger.   More often,   it looks like kindness without limits. (Rahul Kulkarni is Co-founder at PPS Consulting. He patterns the human mechanics of scaling where workplace behavior quietly shapes business outcomes. Views personal.)

A Spectacle in Ruins: Rediscovering The Fall of the Roman Empire

Updated: Nov 12, 2024

Fall of the Roman Empire

In the sweep of 20th-century Hollywood epics, few have slipped so quietly into obscurity as Anthony Mann’s ‘The Fall of the Roman Empire’ (1964), a film that, despite its gargantuan scope, intelligent narrative and its stellar performances, remains one of the most unjustly forgotten works of its genre.


With television snaring cinema goers in the 1950s, Hollywood studious faced a daunting challenge in viewing back audiences to theatres. One of the devices was by producing mammoth, expensive spectaculars like Cecil B. DeMille’s ‘The Ten Commandments’ (1956) and William Wyler’s Oscar-garlanded ‘Ben-Hur’ (1959), both starring Charlton Heston.


By the 1960s, empty-headed spectacle was giving way to a more intellectual-minded epic – a trend exemplified by director Stanley Kubrick’s ‘Spartacus’ (1960) which was produced by actor Kirk Douglas, who played the titular protagonist who led the slave revolt against brutal Roman authority in 70 BCE. The film not only stood as a cinematic triumph but was a pivotal moment in Hollywood history with its true significance lying in Douglas’s role in dismantling the Hollywood blacklist. ‘Spartacus’ boasted a stellar cast, with delicious performances from Laurence Olivier (as a chillingly ruthless Crassus), Charles Laughton and Peter Ustinov. Incidentally, Douglas had fired Mann, who directed some scenes in the film.


The epic continued to evolve with 1961’s ‘El Cid’, which was directed by Mann, produced by Samuel Bronston, and which also starred Heston as the 11th century Spanish military leader battling Moors. The intellectual epic was elevated to a stratospheric level with David Lean’s ‘Lawrence of Arabia’ (1962). However, the genre had a setback with the huge failure of the four-hour ‘Cleopatra’ (1963).


Then came Mann’s ‘The Fall of the Roman Empire’ with a stunning cast including Sophia Loren and Stephen Boyd (of ‘Ben-Hur’ fame) as the nominal leads, surrounded by the great performances of Alec Guinness, James, Mason and Christopher Plummer.


The idea for making this complex film came when Mann spotted an Oxford concise edition of Edward Gibbon’s monumental six-volume series ‘The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire’ near the front window at the Hatchards bookshop in London.


Set during the waning years of the Western Roman Empire during the reign of the wise Marcus Aurelius (brilliantly essayed by Guinness) who is succeeded by his delusional, narcissistic and brutal son Commodus (played with scene-stealing relish by Plummer), the film examines not only the external threats of barbarian invasions but also the corrosive forces within: political intrigue, social inequality, and the decay of civic responsibility.


The film sought to capture something more elusive - the slow, inevitable collapse of a civilization that, despite its vaunted military prowess, was undone by its own internal rot.


The film’s remarkable ambition is matched by its visual achievement, which somehow captures Gibbon’s literary tone. Shot on some of the largest sets ever constructed, ‘Fall’ boasts stunning recreations of Rome’s vast architectural marvels, notably the Roman Forum. Mann’s camera roves like a subtle yet unyielding observer of a crumbling empire. Dmitri Tiomkin’s haunting score, with its foreboding organ fugues, serves as a fitting auditory accompaniment for a story moving inexorably toward catastrophe.


Yet, despite its obvious achievements, ‘Fall’ faltered at the box office. Perhaps it was a time when audiences, weary from the recent political upheavals following the Kennedy assassination, were less inclined to embrace a film about the slow, tragic decline of a once-great civilization.


The irony was that the loud, muscle-bound CGI-driven ‘Gladiator’ (2000) – an inferior rehash of ‘Fall’ - was feted with Oscars 36 years later.


Today, Mann’s film looks eerily prescient in its depiction of a fractured world teetering on the brink of chaos. Gore Vidal, who advised on the script, called the film “the only ‘accurate’ Roman film” in terms of its visual representation. The historical veracity of the film has been recognized by Roman scholars, who have lauded it for its realistic portrayal of second-century Rome.


The film’s themes of the decline of great powers, the disintegration of social and political cohesion, and the dangers of unchecked ambition are themes that remain as relevant today as they were in the 2nd century A.D. In that sense, Mann’s epic is not just a relic of the past, but a dark mirror to our own time.

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