Crowds ‘fund & bless’ wedding of farm-girl
- Quaid Najmi
- May 3, 2025
- 2 min read

Yavatmal: In a rare development, the local community, activists and elected representatives poured love, gifts and financial support for the simple wedding of a 19-year-old girl – who lost her debt-ridden peasant father when she was just a six-month-old infant in 2006.
Last week, when the demure Lakshmi Chincholkar, 19 - attired in her bridal finery – shared the stage with the groom Kunal Waghade, 23, a graduate farmer-cum-trader, there was a shower of blessings and cheers for the young couple by over 2,000 guests in the marquee.
The proud mother, Geeta Chincholkar had tears of joy welling up her eyes as she remembered her late husband, Shravan Chincholkar, who ended his life out of sheer financial difficulties and unpaid loans, 19 years ago.
Like a lighting bolt, Geeta suddenly became a widow aged 17, with the tiny Lakshmi crying in her arms, unable to understand anything as Shravan’s last rites were performed in the Kopamandavi village of Yavatmal.
“The family has undergone a life of struggles… Geeta did odd chores or farm labour to support little Lakshmi and got her educated till Class XII (HSC). Geeta was fortunate to receive an unconditional marriage proposal for Lakshmi from Kunal, and both hail from the same (Suthar) caste,” agriculture activist Kishore Tiwari, who organized the marriage, told ‘The Perfect Voice’.
Though the boy’s side made no demands, the girl’s side wanted to do something memorable for their sole daughter who grew up under trying circumstances, so a public appeal was made for help to conduct the wedding.
Tiwari recalled how, since 1996, an average eight farmers are committing suicide in the state, particularly Vidarbha, but no government has fully succeeded in resolving the agrarian crises gripping Maharashtra.
“Even now, debt-ridden peasants choose the extreme step out of frustration, leaving behind widows and minor kids who have to fend for themselves. This is a unique example of how the entire community showed generosity to support one such widow and her daughter,” said a grim Tiwari.





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