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Divyaa Advaani 

2 November 2024 at 8:58:38 am

The Deal Died Before Negotiations

The terms were right. The numbers made sense. The opportunity was genuinely good for both sides. And yet it did not close. Most founders, when a deal or partnership falls through, conduct a thorough post-mortem on the wrong things. They revisit the proposal. They question the pricing. They wonder if the timing was off or the market conditions unfavourable. They examine everything except the one variable that was present in every conversation, every meeting and every moment the other party was...

The Deal Died Before Negotiations

The terms were right. The numbers made sense. The opportunity was genuinely good for both sides. And yet it did not close. Most founders, when a deal or partnership falls through, conduct a thorough post-mortem on the wrong things. They revisit the proposal. They question the pricing. They wonder if the timing was off or the market conditions unfavourable. They examine everything except the one variable that was present in every conversation, every meeting and every moment the other party was forming their judgment. Themselves. The uncomfortable truth about deals that die in the final stages — after interest has been established, terms discussed and both sides have invested significant time — is that they almost never die because of the numbers. They die because of doubt. And doubt, at this level of business, is almost always created by a gap between how capable someone appears on paper and how commanding they actually are in person. Here is how that gap shows up. The founder enters the room with strong credentials. Their business is real, their track record solid, their offering genuinely valuable. But something about how they carry themselves — how they communicate, how they handle questions they do not immediately know the answer to, how they respond to pushback, whether they fill silence comfortably or nervously creates a quiet uncertainty in the mind of the person across the table. Not enough to walk away immediately. Just enough to hesitate. To ask for more time. To come back with a revised term that was never really about the term at all. That hesitation is not a negotiation tactic. It is a verdict about a person. The founders who close consistently not occasionally, not when the deal is easy, but consistently across different partners, different rooms, different levels of scrutiny share one quality that has nothing to do with the quality of their business. They are congruent. The person in the room matches the company on the document. The confidence in the conversation matches the credibility on paper. There is no gap to fall into, no uncertainty to take root, no quiet question that lingers after the meeting ends. That congruence is not charisma. It is not charm or aggression or years of sales training. It is a personal brand built with enough deliberateness that it communicates the same thing in every room, to every person, under every level of scrutiny and pressure. It says without words — this is who I am, this is what I stand for, and you would be making a sound decision to proceed with me. Think about the last significant deal or partnership that did not close the way you expected. Play back those conversations honestly not what was said, but how you showed up in them. Were you the version of yourself that your business deserves to be represented by? Or was there a gap somewhere — between the business you have built and the personal authority with which you were presenting it to the room? Because here is what the other party was actually experiencing. They were not evaluating your company in isolation. They were evaluating you as the person who would be their partner, their counterpart, the face of this entire arrangement in every difficult conversation still to come. And if what they saw gave them any reason to hesitate — however small, however unspoken, however quickly dismissed in the moment — that hesitation became the real reason the deal did not close. The terms were never really the problem. I work with founders at exactly this intersection where business strength and personal brand need to meet for the right deals to actually happen and close. If a significant opportunity has recently slipped through in a way that still does not fully make sense to you, that confusion is worth a direct conversation. Book here: https://www.calendly.com/divyaaadvaani/founderbrand-audit — Divyaa Advaani, Personal Branding Strategist (The writer is a personal branding expert. She has clients from 14+ countries. Views personal.)

Discussions on among allies for govt formation: Ajit Pawar

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Nov 26, 2024
2 min read

Updated: Nov 29, 2024

Ajit Pawar

Mumbai: Deputy Chief Minister and NCP head Ajit Pawar on Monday said discussions were underway among the Mahayuti partners to finalise a formula for the new government formation in the state.


Speaking to reporters at Karad in Satara district, Pawar also acknowledged the contribution of the government's Ladki Bahin scheme, which provides financial assistance to women, in the Mahayuti's victory in the just-concluded state assembly polls.


The NCP leader also assured that the alliance was working cohesively following its resounding victory in the state assembly elections.


Pawar paid tributes to Maharashtra's first chief minister Yashwantrao Chavan at his memorial in Karad on his death anniversary.


In the state poll results declared on Saturday, the Mahayuti, which comprises the BJP, Chief Minister Eknath Shinde's Shiv Sena and Ajit Pawar-led NCP, bagged an impressive 230 of the 288 assembly seats.


The focus has been on BJP leader and Deputy Chief Minister Devendra Fadnavis, who is being seen as a strong contender to occupy the top post for the third time, as his party bagged 132 of the 149 seats it contested in the state.


Notably, Maharashtra minister and Shiv Sena leader Deepak Kesarkar has said his party legislators feel Eknath Shinde should continue as the chief minister of the state, where the ruling Mahayuti scored a landslide victory in the assembly polls.


Ajit Pawar said, "We will decide what formula to work out on the cabinet formation among the three parties."


Reflecting on the elections, he acknowledged the contribution of the Ladki Bahin scheme in the Mahayuti's win.


"We cannot ignore that Ladki Bahin helped us in this election. We are grateful to them (women voters)," he said.


Defending the scheme, Pawar, who is also the state finance minister, further said, "Had I been opposed to the Ladki Bahin scheme, I would not have presented it in the House. I discussed the scheme with several retired finance officers before finalising it."


Pawar also dismissed concerns raised by some opposition leaders over the Electronic Voting Machines (EVMs), pointing out that polls in states like Punjab, West Bengal and Telangana, governed by their political opponents, have been conducted with the same system.


Commenting on members of same families contesting against each other during the elections, Pawar expressed annoyance over repeated questions on it.


He then asked, "Why was my close nephew fielded? Atram's own daughter was fielded against him, and even Rajendra Shingne faced a similar challenge. I don't want to comment further on this. I have got tired of apologising for fielding my wife against Supriya. Yugendra was in business, then why was he prepared to contest against me?"


In the Baramati assembly seat, Ajit Pawar was pitted against his nephew and NCP (SP) candidate Yugendra Pawar.


In Aheri seat, NCP leader Dharamraobaba Atram's daughter Bhagyashree Atram contested against him on NCP (SP) ticket.

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