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Asha Tripathi

14 April 2025 at 1:35:28 pm

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along...

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along with growth has come another silent challenge — the tendency to constantly observe, compare, and sometimes even compete with the journeys of others. But a crucial question arises: Is it necessary to track the growth of others in order to grow ourselves? From my personal experience of more than two decades as an entrepreneur, I have realised something very powerful — true growth begins the moment we stop looking sideways and start looking within. A Small Beginning I had a flourishing career of teaching abroad, but when I restarted my career after moving back to India, my beginning was extremely small. My very first assignment was a simple home tuition for a single student, and the amount I earned was meagre. There was nothing glamorous about it. No recognition, no large batches, no big earnings. Just one student and one opportunity. But instead of worrying about how others were doing, how many students they had, or how much they were earning, I made a conscious decision—my only focus would be on improving myself. I focused on teaching better, preparing better, and becoming more disciplined and consistent. And slowly, without even realising it, things began to grow. One student became two, two became a small group, and gradually, over the years, the work expanded beyond what I had initially imagined. Looking back today, I can confidently say that the growth did not happen because I competed with others. It happened because I competed with myself yesterday. Comparison Creates Noise When we keep watching others' journeys too closely, we unknowingly divert our own energy. Comparison creates unnecessary noise in our minds. It brings doubts, insecurities, and sometimes even negativity. Instead of walking our own path with clarity, we start questioning our speed, our direction, and our worth. True success grows through focus, not comparison. Every woman has her own story, her own pace, and her own struggles that others may never see. The path of one person can never be identical to another's. So comparing journeys is like comparing two different rivers flowing towards the same ocean — each with its own route, its own curves, and its own rhythm. As women, we already carry many responsibilities. We balance emotions, relationships, work, and society's expectations. In such a life, the last thing we need is the burden of comparison with one another. Instead, what we truly need is support for each other. When women encourage women, something extraordinary happens. Confidence grows. Opportunities multiply. Strength becomes collective rather than individual. There is enough space in the world for every woman to create her own identity. Each of us can build our own niche without stepping on someone else's path. Choose Encouragement Envy weakens us, but encouragement empowers us. Rather than questioning how someone else is progressing, we can ask a more meaningful question: "How can I grow a little better than I was yesterday?" Lift As You Rise Today, after twenty years of experience, the most valuable lesson I have learned is simple yet profound — focus on your own work with honesty and dedication, and success will quietly follow you. We, women, are capable, resilient, and creative. We do not need to pull each other down or compete in unhealthy ways. Instead, we can lift each other up while building our own dreams. Because when one woman rises, she does not rise alone. She inspires many others to believe that they can rise, too. And perhaps that is the most beautiful form of success. (The writer is a tutor based in Thane. Views personal.)

Gold’s Real Role: Survival, Not Returns

Gold, especially in the Indian context, should not be evaluated as an investment. It should be understood as a financial insurance policy embedded in the household balance sheet.

As a chartered accountant, one of the most common questions I am asked by clients is, “How much return does gold give compared to equity or mutual funds?” My response often surprises them.


Gold, especially in the Indian context, should not be evaluated primarily as an investment. It should be understood as a financial insurance policy embedded in the household balance sheet.


This distinction is critical because when gold is judged by the same yardsticks as equity or real estate—CAGR, alpha, inflation-beating returns—it is bound to disappoint. But when evaluated through the lens of risk management, liquidity, and capital preservation, gold performs a role that no other asset class can replicate.


Gold and Wealth Survival

From a professional accounting perspective, wealth creation and wealth protection are two separate objectives. Equity, business assets, and real estate are designed for wealth creation. Gold, historically and practically, is designed for wealth survival.


In financial statements, insurance premiums are treated as expenses, not investments. Yet no rational person evaluates insurance by asking how much profit it generated. The value of insurance lies in its availability during stress, not its performance during normal times. Gold functions in exactly the same manner for Indian households.


During periods of economic stress—job loss, medical emergencies, business downturns, or systemic crises—gold has consistently proven to be immediately liquid, widely acceptable, and value-retentive. As a CA, I have seen numerous cases where clients could not liquidate equity due to market crashes, could not sell property due to a lack of buyers, and could not access loans due to poor cash flows. Gold, however, remained accessible.


Liquidity Beyond Financial Systems

One of gold’s most underestimated advantages is its extra-institutional liquidity. Unlike shares, mutual funds, or bonds, gold does not require a functioning financial system to unlock value. It does not depend on market hours, counterparties, or digital infrastructure.


Gold can be pledged or sold without a credit score, proof of income, or documentation delays. This is particularly important in India, where a large segment of the population is self-employed, informally employed, or cash-flow dependent. For such households, gold acts as a parallel financial safety net. From a CA’s lens, this liquidity is not just convenience—it is risk mitigation.


Currency-Agnostic Asset

Another critical reason gold should be treated as financial insurance is its currency neutrality. Fiat currencies are subject to inflation, monetary policy, fiscal stress, and geopolitical events. Gold, on the other hand, has preserved purchasing power across centuries, countries, and regimes.


When inflation erodes savings, currencies weaken, or confidence in financial institutions declines, gold tends to retain relative value. This is why central banks worldwide continue to hold gold as part of their reserves. If gold is relevant at a sovereign level, dismissing it at a household level is financially short-sighted.


Expecting Growth from Gold

Many investors make the mistake of allocating to gold with the expectation that it should outperform equity. This leads to dissatisfaction and poor asset allocation decisions. As a professional advisor, I believe gold’s role is not to maximise returns but to stabilise the portfolio during extreme events.


In portfolio construction, gold functions as a shock absorber. It reduces volatility, cushions downside risk, and provides optional liquidity when other assets fail. From a balance-sheet perspective, gold improves the risk-adjusted quality of household wealth.


This is precisely why gold allocation should be strategic, not emotional. Over-allocating to gold hampers long-term growth, while under-allocating exposes families to financial fragility.


Gold in the Indian Socio-Financial Context

India’s relationship with gold is not merely cultural; it is deeply financial. Gold bridges the gap between formal finance and informal reality. It provides dignity in distress, autonomy in emergencies, and security in uncertainty.


As a CA, I have observed that families with even modest gold holdings often navigate crises better than families with higher paper wealth but no liquid fallback. Gold may not show impressive returns in spreadsheets, but it shows remarkable resilience in real life.


Right Question to Ask

The correct question is not “How much return will gold give?” The correct question is, “If everything else fails, how long can my family survive financially?” Gold answers that question silently.


In an era marked by volatile markets, rising healthcare costs, job insecurity, and economic uncertainty, treating gold merely as an underperforming investment is a conceptual error. It is not meant to race; it is meant to stand firm when others fall.


From a chartered accountant’s standpoint, gold deserves a place not in the return-seeking portion of a portfolio, but in the risk-protection core. When viewed this way, gold stops being an emotional purchase and becomes a rational financial safeguard.


(The writer is a Chartered Accountant based in Thane. Views personal.)


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