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By:

Dr. Abhilash Dawre

19 March 2025 at 5:18:41 pm

Gold, luxury cars, lavish life

‘Pami Guru’ wows followers with MPs and police at darbar   Kalyan: Following the high-profile Ashok Kharat case in Nashik, the emergence of the ‘Pami Guru’ scandal in Kalyan has sent shockwaves across the state. Allegations of blind faith, financial exploitation, and potential political-police collusion have intensified public concern.   Viral videos circulating on social media show the self-styled transgender spiritual leader, known as ‘Pami Guru,’ flaunting a luxurious lifestyle. Footage...

Gold, luxury cars, lavish life

‘Pami Guru’ wows followers with MPs and police at darbar   Kalyan: Following the high-profile Ashok Kharat case in Nashik, the emergence of the ‘Pami Guru’ scandal in Kalyan has sent shockwaves across the state. Allegations of blind faith, financial exploitation, and potential political-police collusion have intensified public concern.   Viral videos circulating on social media show the self-styled transgender spiritual leader, known as ‘Pami Guru,’ flaunting a luxurious lifestyle. Footage displays the guru adorned with heavy gold jewelry, showcasing palatial homes and a fleet of expensive cars, including seven Fortuners and four Thars, claimed to be personally owned. This ostentatious display is believed to be a calculated attempt to impress and influence followers.   Adding to the controversy is the “token system” for personal visits. According to information shared by the guru, meetings are scheduled for Tuesdays and Fridays, with 200 tokens distributed on Mondays and Tuesdays respectively. This suggests that at least 400 people visit the site weekly. Critics argue that this system indicates a well-structured “business” under the guise of spiritual guidance, rather than mere devotion.   Visitors reportedly seek help for highly sensitive personal issues such as infertility, employment challenges, and family disputes. Accusations have emerged that these individuals are being misled and financially exploited under the pretext of “miraculous solutions.”   Political Dimension The scandal has also drawn a political dimension. A viral video shows Bhivandi MP Suresh Mhatre, also known as ‘Balya Mama,’ meeting the guru, raising questions about indirect political backing. Given the involvement of political figures in the Nashik case, speculation is growing over potential influences behind ‘Pami Guru.’   Serious questions have been raised regarding the role of local police. Some viral clips show police officers, including traffic officials, visiting the guru and even presenting personal issues while in uniform. In one shocking video, a traffic police officer from Vasai is seen placing his uniform belt and shoulder insignia aside during a prayer ritual, with visible cash notes, raising concerns about the integrity of the force.   Despite the gravity of the situation, no concrete action has been reported, prompting local outrage and demands for immediate investigation. Citizens are questioning whether authorities are unaware, neglecting their duty, or acting under external pressure. The lack of formal complaints has further fueled speculation about fear or suppression of public voices.   Maharashtra’s strict anti-superstition laws exist to prevent such exploitation, yet the continued operation of this large-scale system raises questions about enforcement gaps. The ‘Pami Guru’ case highlights the fine line between faith and fraud particularly when devotion is monetised with “token numbers,” turning belief into business.

Healing the Mind Beyond Medicine

In today's world, where many people feel both connected and lonely, mental health has become a major issue. The World Health Organization reports that depression and anxiety disorders are among the top causes of disability globally. While therapy, medication, and counselling are important for treatment, there is a growing understanding that healing the mind often requires something deeper, such as a sense of meaning, connection, and inner balance.


This is where spirituality comes in. Spirituality isn’t limited to rituals or religion. It is a personal journey to find purpose, values, and something greater than oneself. For some, spirituality may involve prayer in a temple, mosque, or church. For others, it can be meditation at dawn, silent gratitude before bed, or a solitary walk by the sea. At its heart, spirituality helps people make sense of suffering and uncertainty without being overwhelmed by them.


Modern psychology is increasingly recognizing this aspect. Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, in his influential book Man's Search for Meaning, argued that the main human drive is not pleasure or power, but meaning. Even in the harsh conditions of Nazi concentration camps, Frankl noticed that those who could find a purpose—a loved one to return to, a task to complete, a belief to uphold—were more resilient. His observation still holds true in today’s struggles with stress, burnout, and despair. In India, spiritual practices have long been part of everyday life.


The ancient discipline of Yoga, now recognized worldwide on International Yoga Day, combines physical postures with breath control and meditation. Research indicates that regular yoga practice lowers cortisol levels, reduces anxiety, and improves emotional regulation. Likewise, mindfulness meditation, popularized in the West by Jon Kabat-Zinn, has been shown to lessen depression symptoms and boost overall mental well-being. So, how does spirituality support mental health?


First, it nurtures hope. When individuals see their lives as part of a bigger picture or moral order, temporary challenges don’t seem like permanent judgments. Faith traditions often highlight endurance, forgiveness, and renewal—powerful remedies for guilt and hopelessness. Second, spirituality builds community. Places of worship and spiritual gatherings provide social support, which psychologists recognize as a protective factor against mental illness. A grieving person surrounded by empathetic friends is less likely to withdraw into isolation.


Third, spiritual practices promote self-reflection. In a society focused on social media and constant comparison, embracing silence can be transformative. A few minutes of daily reflection can help individuals process their feelings instead of pushing them down. It allows anger to soften, fear to be acknowledged, and gratitude to arise.


However, it's important to make a clear distinction. Spirituality should enhance, not replace, professional help. Severe depression, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia needs medical treatment. Romanticizing suffering as "karma" or "divine will" can delay necessary care and make situations worse. Mental health professionals increasingly support an integrated approach, where therapy honors the patient’s spiritual beliefs while sticking to evidence-based practices. Educational institutions and workplaces are starting to recognize this connection too.


Meditation rooms, wellness retreats, and value-driven workshops are slowly becoming part of corporate culture. Schools that incorporate mindfulness sessions notice better focus and fewer behavioral problems. When students learn about emotional awareness alongside math and science, they develop into balanced individuals, not just skilled workers.


Yet, spirituality must remain inclusive. It shouldn’t divide people or serve as a means for moral judgment. The essence of spirituality is compassion—for oneself and for others. A spiritually healthy mind is not rigid or judgmental; it is understanding and open.


As urban India faces rising cases of stress-related issues, revisiting ancient wisdom through a modern lens might offer solutions.


Simple acts like lighting a lamp, chanting a mantra, journaling thoughts, or just being conscious of breathing can help ground a restless mind. Ultimately, mental health isn’t just the absence of illness; it’s about finding harmony. Medicine can stabilize the brain, and counselling can help clarify thoughts. But spirituality often brings back meaning. In a world that constantly demands high performance, rediscovering our purpose may be the quiet change our minds need most.


(The author has 44 books to his credit in English literature. Views personal.)

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