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By:

Asha Tripathi

14 April 2025 at 1:35:28 pm

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along...

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along with growth has come another silent challenge — the tendency to constantly observe, compare, and sometimes even compete with the journeys of others. But a crucial question arises: Is it necessary to track the growth of others in order to grow ourselves? From my personal experience of more than two decades as an entrepreneur, I have realised something very powerful — true growth begins the moment we stop looking sideways and start looking within. A Small Beginning I had a flourishing career of teaching abroad, but when I restarted my career after moving back to India, my beginning was extremely small. My very first assignment was a simple home tuition for a single student, and the amount I earned was meagre. There was nothing glamorous about it. No recognition, no large batches, no big earnings. Just one student and one opportunity. But instead of worrying about how others were doing, how many students they had, or how much they were earning, I made a conscious decision—my only focus would be on improving myself. I focused on teaching better, preparing better, and becoming more disciplined and consistent. And slowly, without even realising it, things began to grow. One student became two, two became a small group, and gradually, over the years, the work expanded beyond what I had initially imagined. Looking back today, I can confidently say that the growth did not happen because I competed with others. It happened because I competed with myself yesterday. Comparison Creates Noise When we keep watching others' journeys too closely, we unknowingly divert our own energy. Comparison creates unnecessary noise in our minds. It brings doubts, insecurities, and sometimes even negativity. Instead of walking our own path with clarity, we start questioning our speed, our direction, and our worth. True success grows through focus, not comparison. Every woman has her own story, her own pace, and her own struggles that others may never see. The path of one person can never be identical to another's. So comparing journeys is like comparing two different rivers flowing towards the same ocean — each with its own route, its own curves, and its own rhythm. As women, we already carry many responsibilities. We balance emotions, relationships, work, and society's expectations. In such a life, the last thing we need is the burden of comparison with one another. Instead, what we truly need is support for each other. When women encourage women, something extraordinary happens. Confidence grows. Opportunities multiply. Strength becomes collective rather than individual. There is enough space in the world for every woman to create her own identity. Each of us can build our own niche without stepping on someone else's path. Choose Encouragement Envy weakens us, but encouragement empowers us. Rather than questioning how someone else is progressing, we can ask a more meaningful question: "How can I grow a little better than I was yesterday?" Lift As You Rise Today, after twenty years of experience, the most valuable lesson I have learned is simple yet profound — focus on your own work with honesty and dedication, and success will quietly follow you. We, women, are capable, resilient, and creative. We do not need to pull each other down or compete in unhealthy ways. Instead, we can lift each other up while building our own dreams. Because when one woman rises, she does not rise alone. She inspires many others to believe that they can rise, too. And perhaps that is the most beautiful form of success. (The writer is a tutor based in Thane. Views personal.)

How Forensics Speaks After Silence

A dead body has stories to tell with the help of forensic taphonomy; even in decay and silence, nature preserves a record of truth waiting to be read.

When a decomposed body is discovered buried in soil, floating in water, or left exposed, it is often assumed that time has erased the truth. Modern forensic science proves otherwise. Through forensic taphonomy, investigators interpret nature’s own record of death, supported by empirical data, technology, and global research.


Forensic taphonomy studies the changes a body undergoes after death, including decomposition, insect activity, soil and water interaction, temperature effects, fire damage, and animal interference. Apparent decay is transformed into a scientifically interpretable timeline. These changes help determine when death occurred, whether a body was moved, and how environmental conditions shaped the remains. Once largely observational, forensic taphonomy is now evolving into a data-driven discipline capable of producing reliable conclusions even when conventional evidence has been lost or destroyed.


Recent international research has significantly refined post-mortem interval (PMI) estimation. In 2024, researchers introduced GeoFOR, a global web-based forensic taphonomy database that integrates decomposition patterns with environmental variables such as temperature, humidity, and soil chemistry. This enables experts to compare case findings with similar scenarios worldwide, reducing reliance on individual experience and improving accuracy in time-since-death estimation. Complementary studies published the same year demonstrated that no two bodies decompose identically. Decomposition reflects an interaction between intrinsic factors—such as body composition and cause of death—and extrinsic factors, including climate, insect access, and burial conditions. These findings reinforce the need for forensic taphonomy to function alongside forensic entomology, botany, microbiology, and anthropology rather than in isolation.


Earlier decomposition models relied heavily on insect activity to estimate time since death. Contemporary research confirms that insects remain valuable indicators, but only when interpreted alongside environmental data such as temperature, moisture, and substrate conditions. Insects may indicate when decomposition began, while environmental factors determine its rate and progression. The field is advancing further through research into “microbial clocks”, which track predictable post-mortem bacterial succession, as well as through advanced imaging, biochemical markers, and machine-learning models capable of improving estimation accuracy even when insect evidence is absent.


These developments are particularly relevant in India, where heat, humidity, monsoon cycles, and open terrain frequently distort conventional autopsy findings. In recoveries from rivers, forests, and shallow graves, forensic taphonomy, working in coordination with forensic anthropology, pathology, entomology, and chemical forensics, often provides the most reliable reconstruction of post-mortem events.


The Nithari serial murder case demonstrated how taphonomic analysis distinguished deliberate dismemberment from post-depositional soil pressure and scavenger damage, enabling reconstruction of body disposal despite skeletal remains. In multiple river-recovery cases across India, adipocere formation, sediment deposition, and differential tissue loss revealed prior land exposure before submersion, establishing secondary disposal. Forest and open-terrain recoveries of skeletonised remains have relied on bone weathering, root etching, and animal gnaw marks to separate post-mortem alteration from ante-mortem trauma and to estimate minimum post-mortem intervals. Internationally, mass-grave investigations in Bosnia exposed grave relocation intended to conceal crimes, shaping disaster victim identification protocols now endorsed by INTERPOL.


Indian courts increasingly recognise the value of such multidisciplinary interpretation. In cases involving skeletal or severely decomposed remains, courts have accepted scientifically reasoned expert opinions explaining environmental alteration and post-mortem movement. The Supreme Court of India has repeatedly emphasised that scientifically sound and corroborated evidence cannot be dismissed merely because it is complex. Globally, organisations such as UNODC promote data-driven forensic approaches, while technology, including digital forensics and AI-assisted modelling, continues to strengthen analysis without replacing expert judgement.


Criminals may attempt to erase evidence through time, decay, or concealment. Nature, however, records everything. Forensic taphonomy transforms that record into measurable, interpretable truth—demonstrating that silence is never empty but filled with data waiting to be read.


(Keshav Kumar is a former IPS officer and forensic consultant to Assam government. Madhubanti Das is a student of FSU, Guwahati. Views personal.)


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