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By:

Asha Tripathi

14 April 2025 at 1:35:28 pm

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along...

Stop Comparing, Start Growing

Success does not grow in comparison; it grows in focus. Over the years, women have made significant strides in every sphere of life. From managing homes to leading organisations, from nurturing families to building successful careers, women have proved that strength and resilience are deeply rooted in their nature. Financial independence has become a significant milestone for many women today, bringing with it confidence, dignity, and the freedom to shape one’s own destiny. However, along with growth has come another silent challenge — the tendency to constantly observe, compare, and sometimes even compete with the journeys of others. But a crucial question arises: Is it necessary to track the growth of others in order to grow ourselves? From my personal experience of more than two decades as an entrepreneur, I have realised something very powerful — true growth begins the moment we stop looking sideways and start looking within. A Small Beginning I had a flourishing career of teaching abroad, but when I restarted my career after moving back to India, my beginning was extremely small. My very first assignment was a simple home tuition for a single student, and the amount I earned was meagre. There was nothing glamorous about it. No recognition, no large batches, no big earnings. Just one student and one opportunity. But instead of worrying about how others were doing, how many students they had, or how much they were earning, I made a conscious decision—my only focus would be on improving myself. I focused on teaching better, preparing better, and becoming more disciplined and consistent. And slowly, without even realising it, things began to grow. One student became two, two became a small group, and gradually, over the years, the work expanded beyond what I had initially imagined. Looking back today, I can confidently say that the growth did not happen because I competed with others. It happened because I competed with myself yesterday. Comparison Creates Noise When we keep watching others' journeys too closely, we unknowingly divert our own energy. Comparison creates unnecessary noise in our minds. It brings doubts, insecurities, and sometimes even negativity. Instead of walking our own path with clarity, we start questioning our speed, our direction, and our worth. True success grows through focus, not comparison. Every woman has her own story, her own pace, and her own struggles that others may never see. The path of one person can never be identical to another's. So comparing journeys is like comparing two different rivers flowing towards the same ocean — each with its own route, its own curves, and its own rhythm. As women, we already carry many responsibilities. We balance emotions, relationships, work, and society's expectations. In such a life, the last thing we need is the burden of comparison with one another. Instead, what we truly need is support for each other. When women encourage women, something extraordinary happens. Confidence grows. Opportunities multiply. Strength becomes collective rather than individual. There is enough space in the world for every woman to create her own identity. Each of us can build our own niche without stepping on someone else's path. Choose Encouragement Envy weakens us, but encouragement empowers us. Rather than questioning how someone else is progressing, we can ask a more meaningful question: "How can I grow a little better than I was yesterday?" Lift As You Rise Today, after twenty years of experience, the most valuable lesson I have learned is simple yet profound — focus on your own work with honesty and dedication, and success will quietly follow you. We, women, are capable, resilient, and creative. We do not need to pull each other down or compete in unhealthy ways. Instead, we can lift each other up while building our own dreams. Because when one woman rises, she does not rise alone. She inspires many others to believe that they can rise, too. And perhaps that is the most beautiful form of success. (The writer is a tutor based in Thane. Views personal.)

Six Financial Tips for 2026

As 2026 begins, it’s the perfect time to reassess your financial goals and make smart decisions to set a strong foundation for the year. The following six key strategies will help you take control of your financial future.


Whenever I talk about investments below, I always mean a combination of mutual funds, direct stocks, and gold. These are essential for achieving your long-term goals (beyond three years). For short-term goals, you can stick to bank fixed deposits and recurring deposits.


1. Increase Your SIPs

Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs) are a disciplined way to invest. If you haven’t increased your SIP contributions in the last 12 months, now is a great time to review and increase. This adjustment ensures your SIPs are sufficient in comparison to your monthly income.


2. SIPs Income At Least 30 pc

Your SIPs should account for at least 30 per cent of your in-hand monthly income. This consistent investment approach helps you manage current expenses while building wealth for the future. It’s crucial that your investments not only beat inflation but also help maintain and elevate your standard of living over time.


3. Make Lumpsum Investments

If you have excess funds that you won’t need for the next three years, consider making lumpsum investments. Idle money tends to lose value due to inflation, so investing it wisely is essential.


4. Health Insurance

Health insurance is a critical component of any sound financial plan. To protect your savings and long-term financial goals, it’s essential to buy personal, comprehensive health insurance that offers sufficient coverage and necessary features. Don’t rely on your employer’s health insurance plan.


5. Term Life Insurance

Term life insurance is an essential product to provide financial security for your loved ones. If you don’t already have a term plan, make it a priority to get one. If you do have it, assess whether your coverage is sufficient in relation to your income and financial goals, and increase it if needed. Term insurance is a cost-effective way to protect your family in case of an untimely death, ensuring their financial stability.


6. Engage A Financial Advisor

If you haven’t worked with a financial advisor, 2026 is the perfect time to start. A professional advisor can help you create a personalized plan that includes investments in direct stocks, mutual funds, gold, fixed-income products, and insurance strategies tailored to your income and financial goals. With expert advice, you can ensure your investments and plans are optimized for both growth and protection.


By implementing these strategies early in the year, you will position yourself for financial success and a secure 2026.


(The author is a Chartered Accountant and CFA (USA). Financial Advisor. Views personal. He could be reached on 9833133605.)

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