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By:

Akhilesh Sinha

25 June 2025 at 2:53:54 pm

Driving Change

Once trapped by poverty and abuse, Sufina found freedom behind the wheel — and now helps women travel safely across Delhi. The woman who once felt unsafe is now ensuring women travellers get home securely from Delhi’s airport, day or night. Among those providing this round-the-clock service is Sufina, a cab driver with the “Driven by Women for Women and Families” initiative. Sufina, who now offers peace of mind and safe journeys to female passengers, was once deeply troubled herself. But she...

Driving Change

Once trapped by poverty and abuse, Sufina found freedom behind the wheel — and now helps women travel safely across Delhi. The woman who once felt unsafe is now ensuring women travellers get home securely from Delhi’s airport, day or night. Among those providing this round-the-clock service is Sufina, a cab driver with the “Driven by Women for Women and Families” initiative. Sufina, who now offers peace of mind and safe journeys to female passengers, was once deeply troubled herself. But she refused to give up. Pulling herself out of hardship, she not only became self-reliant but also an inspiration for marginalised women in society. Partnering with the Sakha-Azaad Foundation, Sufina has scripted an extraordinary story. Sakha Consulting Wings launched this women-driven cab service for female passengers under the brand  Women with Wheels . All drivers, including Sufina, received training in driving and self-defence through the Azaad Foundation. Born Into Hardship Living in East Delhi’s Anand Vihar, Sufina was married to a daily wage labourer at just 16. By 18, she was a mother. Poverty was crushing; meals were often scarce. Desperate to escape this misery, she began searching for a way out. That was when she met a Sakha volunteer who suggested driver training. It became the turning point in her life. The road ahead, however, was anything but easy. Breaking Free Sufina was stepping into a male-dominated world, and it frightened her at first. Yet her hunger for financial independence gave her courage. In the early days, she faced strong opposition from both her husband and parents. Before leaving for work, her husband would beat her and lock her inside the room to stop her from attending training. But Sufina refused to surrender. Teaming up with her mother, she found a way out. After her husband left for work, her mother would unlock the door. Before he returned, Sufina would quietly slip back home to avoid more conflict. After completing her training, she worked as a private driver for nearly two years, continuing the same routine. As her earnings, confidence and independence grew, so did her assertiveness — and with it, her husband’s suspicion. One day, when he raised his hand again, Sufina fought back. She told him she would not tolerate it anymore. Shocked, he stopped. He never hit her again. Driving Change Sufina believes the turning point in her marriage came when her husband fell seriously ill. She admitted him to a private nursing home and paid for his treatment from her own savings. From then on, he began trusting her and valuing her work. Though the struggle had been painful, Sufina emerged stronger. She now asks a powerful question:  Why must a woman endure so much just to prove herself? Today, she is determined that her daughters should grow up with freedom and choice. In her community, she is respected and admired. Local girls and women see in her a path to self-reliance and dignity. The woman who once lived in fear now helps other women travel without it — and in doing so, she is driving change far beyond Delhi’s roads.

When Thailand Turned Disruption into Hospitality

Whatever the political situation, tourists would not be allowed to suffer.

Having more than 30 years of experience in the travel industry, I have witnessed countless memorable moments. Travelling across the globe has not only allowed me to explore beautiful destinations but also to meet many wonderful people who have enriched my life in meaningful ways. Every journey carries a story, a lesson, and sometimes a moment that stays with you forever.


In this first part of my article, I have shared one such true incident from my travels—an experience that deeply touched my heart and left a lasting impression on my life.


Thailand Tours

It was meant to be just another Thailand tour. That year, we were conducting nearly two Thailand tours every month. The itinerary was familiar, the arrangements smooth, and the excitement predictable. Nothing about it suggested that it would become one of the most unforgettable chapters of my life. But sometimes, travel teaches you lessons that no guidebook ever can.


To understand what unfolded, a little background is necessary. Thailand follows a constitutional monarchy, much like the United Kingdom. However, in Thailand, the king is not merely a constitutional head — he is deeply respected and emotionally revered by the people. His word carries immense moral weight.


At that time, Prime Minister Thaksin Shinawatra was seen as dynamic and bold. Yet many believed he did not show the monarchy the reverence it deserved. When he sold his billion-dollar business empire to a Singapore-based company, public resentment intensified. Political unrest had already been brewing for months. The nation was divided into two visible factions — popularly known as the Yellow Shirts and the Pink Shirts.


We arrived in Thailand on 20th November. Our tour covered Pattaya and Bangkok, as usual. However, on the very day of our arrival, I heard that King Bhumibol Adulyadej had dismissed Prime Minister Thaksin while he was on an official visit to the United States. The military had taken control.


In Thailand, such developments were not entirely unheard of. So initially, there was no panic. We continued with our itinerary calmly.


Then came 22nd November

Thousands of Yellow Shirt protesters occupied the international airports of Bangkok, Phuket, and Krabi. Roads leading to the airports were blocked. Government buildings were surrounded. The situation escalated rapidly. And then came the news—both Bangkok airports were shut down.


Initially, we believed it would last a day or two. Surely the authorities would restore order. Surely flights would resume soon.


But this was not a spontaneous protest. It was organised, determined, and well prepared. The protesters had tents, food supplies, and everything needed for a prolonged stay. It became clear that this situation would not end quickly. Our return was scheduled for 24th November.


Suddenly, two heavy questions stood before me — how would I take 26 people back to India? And where would I accommodate them safely if the shutdown continues?


I extended our hotel booking for one additional day at our own expense. But as a tour leader, I knew that one day was manageable — uncertainty was not. The financial strain was real, but the emotional responsibility weighed far more heavily. My group members were understanding and cooperative. Yet I could sense the quiet anxiety in their eyes — the same uncertainty I was feeling inside.


Finally, our local guide and I went to the Thailand Tourism office. What I witnessed there is something I will never forget. Hundreds of stranded tourists filled the office. Yet amidst the chaos, there was remarkable dignity and calmness. At the entrance, a board read:


“We are extremely sorry for what is happening in Thailand currently, and we solicit your cooperation in this matter. As a gesture, we are providing free water and snacks to all at this office, & we will help you arrange your stay in the Kingdom of Thailand. Kindly contact the guest relations officer.”


And true to those words, water bottles and snacks were arranged for all.


When we approached the Guest Relations desk, they checked our tickets and handed us an official letter. They told us to present it at any 3-star or 4-star hotel in Thailand. The government would bear the entire cost of stay and meals. No hotel could refuse us.


I reconfirmed, almost in disbelief. They calmly assured us — whatever the political situation, tourists would not be allowed to suffer.


In that moment, I felt something shift inside me—from fear to gratitude.


(The writer is a travel enthusiast. Views personal.)

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