The Struggle Behind Success
- Divyaa Advaani

- May 9
- 2 min read

Most people believe that making money is simple. All it takes is talent, hard work, and a little time—right?
But that illusion usually vanishes the moment they take their first real step into the grind. The truth is, there’s nothing effortless about success. What we see from the outside is only the tip of the iceberg.
It reminds me of the duck gliding across a pond—elegant, calm, and graceful. But beneath the surface, that same duck is paddling furiously, its legs working overtime just to stay afloat. That’s what building a career or a business often looks like. What others admire as “graceful success” is usually hiding years of unseen struggle, sleepless nights, and countless sacrifices.
And this is exactly where the misunderstanding begins.
We’ve grown so accustomed to celebrating only the results—the spotlight moments, the awards, the big wins—that we’ve forgotten how to honour the journey itself. We scroll past posts about persistence, we skip the “before they made it” stories, and we often overlook people who are currently fighting to make a name for themselves.
But here’s the truth: everyone who has ever “made it” started exactly where you are. Confused. Exhausted. Invisible. Questioning if it’s even worth it. The only difference? They kept going—often with no applause.
This is where personal branding becomes more than just a marketing term. It’s not about packaging yourself to look polished—it’s about giving your struggle a voice. Personal branding is what helps you show up even before you’ve “arrived.” It allows the world to witness your journey while you’re still figuring it out.
You don’t need to be rich or famous to build a brand—you just need to be real.
If you’re hustling every day, trying to get noticed, trying to make your first real breakthrough—then don’t wait for the world to “discover” you. Start telling your own story. Document your small wins. Share what you’re learning. Be seen as you are, not just as you wish to be.
Because people don’t always connect with the perfect—they connect with the honest. You may not realise it yet, but your brand is already taking shape with every post you write, every conversation you lead, and every impression you leave behind.
Most people wait for success to speak on their behalf. But the most impactful people? They speak during the climb—not just from the top.
In a world filled with noise, real stories still matter. Not because they’re flawless, but because they’re familiar. So, if you’re out there, struggling quietly, hoping someone will notice the effort you’re putting in—I see you. And maybe the world needs to as well.
If you’re struggling to get noticed, build trust, or attract better opportunities, I help professionals create unforgettable personal brands—without sounding fake. I take on only 2 new personal branding clients per month. If you’re serious about telling your story the right way, reach out soon—I’d love to hear it. Message me the word ‘BRAND’ on Instagram and/or LinkedIn and I’ll send you my favourite method. Let’s make your name unforgettable.
LinkedIn: DivyaaAdvaani
Instagram: @suaveu6
Youtube : @suaveu (Suave U- DivyaaAdvaani )
(The author is a personal branding expert. She has clients from
14+ countries. Views personal.)





Comments